Making Hard Decisions: Some Top Tips

by Claudia Bishop

It is said that we make an average amount of 35,000 remotely conscious decisions everyday. Personally, I know that today I've made plenty of decisions such as when to wake up, what to wear etc. When broken down, it is therefore estimated that we make a decision every two seconds. You decided to read this article, and also have decided to not click off just yet.

Recently, I have been faced with many big decisions as a lower Sixth Former. Often, when faced with difficult decisions that induce stress, we go into fight or flight mode. This reaction can be good for us, as it can increase our heart rates so we can make a fast exit. However it can be a stressful time, so here are my top tips when faced with a difficult decision.

1. Speak to someone who has gone through the same situation as you have.

When faced with problems it is really important to know that you're not alone. Speak to someone you trust about what is going on and let them help you understand your situation and what is the right next step. Stress can often cloud our judgement so another pair of eyes may be what you need.

2. Weigh out the Pros and Cons.

This seems like an obvious option and I find it often works as even though it may not give you an easy answer, it may help you figure out your options and realise that either side is equal.

3. Try not to let it get you down.

If the pressure is really building up, make sure to let someone know. You don't always have to face the stress of decision making alone and even though they may not have the answers, they may give you peace of mind that it isn't the end of the world.