by Will Wallace
I used to be one of those ill-informed individuals that would laugh
and make snide remarks about transgender people. It seems ironic that I, of all
people, would snigger at others who have struggled or questioned their identity
in the face of such discrimination.
The sad truth is that people whose biological sex (encompassing
their sexual organs, chromosomal makeup, etc.) does not match their gender identity
face a huge amount of stigma and abuse. It is all too easy to label them as
being “confused” – but those who make such assertions are almost certainly from
the cisgender/non-trans majority of the public that, frankly, has never had to
deal with such identity issues.
Never in my life have I looked in a mirror, seen a boy staring back and felt that it should be a girl. To assume that our gender can be easily
identified by our physical reflection would be short sighted, and certainly a
simplistic assumption. It’s very much the same for lesbian, gay and bisexual (LGB)
people: only you can truly know your sexuality or your gender identity.
It’s really quite depressing to think, therefore, that in the year
2015 far too many people do not seem to understand or accept how an American
TV personality can go from being called ‘Bruce’ to ‘Caitlyn’. Or how a former
boxing manager can change their name from ‘Frank’ to ‘Kellie’. Much of the
language used has been pretty similar to what homophobes use to describe LGB
people: the talk about Jenner and Maloney being “confused” and
“attention-seeking”, not being “natural” and making a “lifestyle choice” could easily
have been used to define Elton John, Stephen Fry and Clare Balding when they
came out.
As a society, we need to change fundamentally the way we
address the question of gender identity, in the same way that our attitudes and
laws affecting LGB people have evolved over the past 40 years. The only way
that such a change can be brought about is through sympathy and understanding.
In 1978, a proposal was put to voters in California – to ban LGB
people, or supporters of gay rights, from teaching in schools. Initially, there
was widespread support for the measure, but following a successful campaign
spearheaded by San Francisco politician, Harvey Milk, the initiative was
decisively rejected. Milk’s strategy had been to encourage closeted LGB
Californians to come out to their family and friends. His words were, “We will
not win our rights by staying quietly in our closets…we are coming out to tell
the truths about gays, for I am tired of the conspiracy of silence”. The result
of this was to enable once bigoted views to be tempered by the unconditional
love one has for a brother, sister or child. Gradually, fear was swept away by such
compassion and acceptance.
I certainly do not believe that full, equal rights have been
achieved for LGB people; in the same way that women still face misogyny, both
explicit and subconscious, and ethnic minorities still bear the brunt of racist
misdemeanors and stereotyping. However, the views that have been expressed
towards Caitlyn Jenner in recent days – the same attitudes that led Leelah
Alcorn, a 17 year-old transgender girl from Ohio, to take her own life last
year – are utterly unforgivable.
I am proud to live in a country where most people
would be horrified if my sexuality were to be the subject of ridicule. We
should never remain silent, or walk by on the other side, when the same mockery
is directed at transgender people.
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